For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin.
Hebrews 4:15
After being born among animals and filth because his parents were refused a reasonable place to stay, he lived for years as a refugee in Egypt, fleeing a state sponsored mass murder of which he was the primary target.
On his return he was hated and hunted by the pharisees and religious leaders until he was eventually betrayed by his own people, who demanded a murderer be released instead of the one who gave many of them sight, and healing, and hope.
He was eventually murdered while the state smiled on.
There are few ways in which Christ can’t directly and literally identify with your experience of pain, betrayals, and exclusion.
And yet, even when betrayed by one of the 12 in his inner circle with a kiss, after being denied 3 times by one of his best friends, he did not close his circle or his arms, but instead opened them wider allowing them to be nailed in that position so that all would know they are welcome in.
You are seen in your hurt and weakness. You have a companion on the dark road. You are loved through it all.
May you go in that peace.